been hearing a lot lately.. and that makes it hard not to think about this question once again..
"what do i want in my another half?"
some goes for looks.
some goes for $$$.
some goes for inner beauty.
some goes for feelings. just the right feelings will do.
some goes for the bigger consideration, family background.
i am glad i've grown out of that little square of mine. which is why its about time for me to ask myself what do i want once again. instead of pushing people away just because i feel not ready and uneasy talking about love again.
as often as someone has been trying to brain wash me that girls are ALL looking for $$$ in their another half, i still think thats rubbish. at least i dont. well, THANKFULLY i was never brought up that way.
moderate is good enough for me =)
looks.. doesnt matter to me. hahaha. i hope this doesnt offend anyone i was with in the past =X it really doesnt.. ill always rmb what my friend said "as long as see ady, wont feel like puking good enough" LOL! but i do care about height! very sorry to say, i cant accept anyone shorter than me or only slightly taller than me.. =X
moving on to the most important part.. i find smart + humble guys very very attractive =) very down to earth person tat kind.. i often tell myself if i don meet such a person, i wont start any relationship.. hahaha, well.. i think if tat thinking continues, i will stay single forever.. realise there are hardly any humble guys who still exist =(
i used to be that kinda girl who goes *SNAP*.. right feeling and thats it.. quite on ady.. LOL.. well not anymore =) i supposed its a good thing..
then there comes family background.. it sucks when u meet this very nice person and his family sucks to the max.. if u noe wat i mean? =.= well it sucks equally to meet a useless freak with a vy kind and nice family.. but wat are the chances to meet such person la right? =.= when family background comes into consideration, financial status follows..
ISN'T IT JUST COMPLICATED?......
=) but God provides. He has plans for me. and i will hold on to that trust and hope i have in Him.
so, whatcha looking for in ur partner? :)
xx
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Dear Huey Ying, I am from PJ, Malaysia and mother to two adult girls. What you posting is very true. We shouldnt look for money. We should instead look for someone who has all the attributes of a good person, whom you can depend and lean on. A person doesnt necessary to hv good looks, stature but what is more important is what he is inside; someone you can love and trust. Money may not be everything but of course you need same in order to have a life; not necessary alot but just enough to get by. I wish you all the best. Will be happy if you can drop by my site too. God bless.
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